Tomorrow I head to the Surrey International Writers Conference to learn more about the fine art of writing and publishing a book. The goal is to also make some valuable connections… (of course I wrote a piece about that very topic)
Are we all connected? I don’t know about this.
Sometimes there seems to be the six degrees of separation. Sometimes it feels like we are all alone.
And what about the fine art of networking? How does that fit in?
Isn’t it drummed into us that to get ahead these days you need to network? Mine those contacts. Milk each connection. Master the art of making it work. Speak up!
And where in all of this is our basic integrity?
That is the question I keep asking myself.
In a life that craves the magic of everything networking can achieve, how do I do it without seeming insincere and plotting? How do you balance the need to utilize all the people you know to push your agenda to succeed? Then there’s the Canadian tendency to be humble and unassuming. And don’t ever forget I practice Tibetan Buddhism. We are meant to be quiet. We don’t push our agendas.
Where is the balance?
Even with all this contemplation I will continue to connect the dots. I will always be amazed I get to know the people I know. Even more shocking is to know the people they know. It boggles the mind.
Networking…. yes, I do it… and I like to believe I do it well.
We are human, what are we if not people who talk to people?
And if this is true, why at times do we feel so all alone?