I’ve said this before but the message isn’t getting through.
I was again struck by the outpouring when a celebrity dies. A mass amount of tributes and stories takes over social media. It happened last week when Tom Petty died. If the death is unexpected the jolt is real. One day you’re dreaming about seeing him in concert, the next you’re listening to all his old songs with tears running down your face.
What always surprises me is that people talk about all the memories they have, all the moments a song has gotten them through a tough time. Maybe the music reminds them of the best time of their life.
People reminisced about what Tom meant to them.
My advice is always the same.
Don’t wait, say it now.
Tonight, go through your record collection, your bookcase, and if you still have them, your old VHS tapes. Even better, think about that special teacher or neighbour that helped you when you were a kid. Recount the times in your life when someone did something that formed your world.
Then find that person and send them a note. Do it now. Tell them how much their song meant to you or how much what they said mattered when you were in pain.
We all have those memories. Don’t wait until the person is dead and tell everyone else what they meant to you. Tell THEM.
And before I forget…include your friends and family members on that list.
Days ago the legendary broadcaster, Rafe Mair passed away. The tributes started soon after the notice circulated. As I mourned the loss, I was thankful for an email conversation years ago. Rafe didn’t know me, but for a few moments, he did know how much I appreciated him.
Tom would have loved this but maybe we should have done it sooner.