More Than Sadness
My depression had been taking a respite for about 2.5 years. I knew it wasn’t gone but I was enjoying the vacation from the torment. I was enjoying the space to weather bad days without a wrecking ball crashing through. I was enjoying the quiet.
Then COVID-19 hit.
It brought along my depression.
The creep was slow but relentless. I watched the shadows appear. I felt the dread manifest. It was a constant drip that turned into a tsunami.
My trick is to stand away from myself and watch. This has pluses and minuses. It’s easier to meditate and practice non-attachment, but also tosses aside compassion for myself.
Finding the balance can save my life.
A little aside, I’m not writing this as a plea for help. That’s not the intent. My point is to remind everyone that we never know what’s going on inside someone’s head. You can see a smiling face and there are tears behind the mask. A mad growl can be hiding fear. We just never know. People lie all the time.
On a bad day last week I sent out a tweet as I headed out for a walk. Yes, sometimes I take my depression out for a walk. The tweet was offhand, sent without an agenda.
During that walk I thought nothing mattered anymore. Nothing. What was the use?
When I got back home I read the responses from the tweet and was floored.
There were over 11,000 impressions. Many direct messages. All unexpected.
The next morning I woke up and the depression was still hovering. Still there, but manageable. Still there, but set aside enough for me to get on with my day.
I’m sharing this story because everything matters. You matter. And clearly your actions matter.
It takes an army to keep depression at bay. You never know if you’re one of the soldiers that’s helping fight the fight and fortifying the defenses.
To all those people that liked the tweet, sent a note, even just took a second to read my words.
Everything matters and kindness can make the difference.